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The idea of oral sex to some people may be a little icky, but in reality, it can be a sure fire way of reaching the ultimate orgasm. Of course, your first time might be a little intimidating, or you’ve done it a lot, but aren’t sure if you’re doing any good, well here are some pointers to help make every oral sex encounter pleasurable for both partners.
Here are some tricks to make oral sex on men not only easier, but a sexier experience for both. First of all, if you have a strong gag reflex, as many do, and can’t reach your throat with out it acting up, there are gels you can get to help. These gels have a numbing ingredient that targets the area in the throat which triggers the gag reflex, so when the penis hits it, you will barely feel it and will be able to keep going. Also, some of these products have a tingling effect on the penis, increasing arousal. They are highly recommended as a lubricant keeping the penis moist, and are thicker than regular lubes to avoid the mess. Most are flavored to increase the interest of the giver.
Now after applying the oral sex enhancer gel, here is the fun part. Start by sliding the penis into your mouth, and wrapping your hand firmly around the base. Try to maintain a firm grip on the base while moving your mouth up and down the shaft, slowly at first. You can speed up or slow down as you wish; try and notice noises and body language signifying “good” and continue with that, or just ask which they prefer.
Now don’t forget about your tongue! As you pull your mouth up to the top, flick the tip of the penis a bit, then swirl your tongue erotically around the head before you slide back down. As you move up and down, press the flat of your tongue firmly against the shaft. You can also swirl your tongue around the shaft as firmly as possible. The warm rubbing of your tongue feels like nothing else in the world to a guy! When you tongue reach the bottom of the penis, try and push it as far into your throat as possible without hurting yourself (this is known as “deep throating”). While doing this, stick your tongue out as much as you can to try licking the very base. The feeling of the tongue on the base of the shaft will give the illusion of the penis being farther in your mouth than it really is. While you’re doing this, use either your other hand, or the hand you are gripping with, and firmly hold the testicles. Try rubbing them, gently squeezing them, or lightly pulling on them, just be careful, they are very sensitive!
You can also use your teeth, as long as you are careful. Drag your teeth up the shaft lightly enough so your partner can barley feel it, and then glide them over the head, and towards the tip. Be very careful not to nip the tip of the penis, you won’t get a good reaction from that! It’s a good idea to always mix it up between rigid gliding teeth, and a hot swirling tongue. Once in a while it’s good to take the penis out of your mouth, still gripping the base, and press your tongue on the base of the shaft and lick all the way up. Then as you reach the tip, wrap your lips around the penis again, and continue bobbing up and down. Also, breathing hot and heavy over the penis increases sensitivity.
There is also a pressure point between the balls and the bum that really gets em’ going if you take your thumb, and press the spot, gently, but firmly, massaging in circles. This spot acts almost like a G-Spot in women, and can really help reach orgasm faster.
Having said all this, every man is different, and they each like different things. Talk to your partner and find out which tricks they like the best.
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I love sex toys, and really enjoyed the Wicked Teaser. It is pretty unique, and is a lot of fun. It has three soft, jelly “fingers” of different lengths that vibrate together in orgasmic harmony! The top jelly finger is set back a tiny bit from the middle one, and the bottom one is about the same as the top one. So the middle one sticks out a little bit more, and all three are strategically placed to tickle your erogenous zones however you like it.
This sex toy is made from a soft, pink jelly, and is firm but flexible. The top where the three ticklers are is actually pretty flexible, so if you push it against yourself, it will bend and not break. The bottom hand held part has a bullet vibrator wrapped in jelly, and is not removable. It is a nice shape and size to hold I found I have smaller hands, so larger sex toys don’t do very well for me. This is one of the sex toys that I can get a good grip on it, and it won’t slip out of my hand. I use it with a rubber compatible lube, and it is one of the best feelings ever!
The battery pack takes two AA batteries, which are not included. It is attached to the bullet vibrator by a wire approximately 2.5 ft, which is long enough to not get in the way. The controller is multi-speed so I can pick my favorite speed and place it next to me on the bed and forget about it! Until, of course, I want to change the speed, then it’s just a small wheel to turn lightly, and it brings me a whole new sensation! Sex toys are really good to have some one play with you with them, and the design of the clit teaser accommodates that perfectly. My boyfriend likes it because he can use it upside down, or even side ways and the three ticklers still do their job. They are really powerful to, which is nice.
Unfortunately, unlike some sex toys, this toy is not waterproof though, so I usually just use it on myself quickly before I take a bath! That way I’m ultra-relaxed before bed! The Wicked Teaser is great for bringing yourself to orgasm fast, because it is so strong which makes the ticklers vibrate at such fast, synchronized speeds. This is probably one of my favorite personal vibrator sex toys that are not wireless.
This toy isn’t too heavy, but it has a nice weight in your hand, and is easy to hold. It can be very discreet and is easy to pack away, but at the highest speed, it is kind of loud. I , however, am kind of partial to the sound of vibrating sex toys. It makes me feel dirty, and never lets me forget what I’m doing! If you think about it like that, it’s a good way of making a downside positive! My partner also likes the noise, he says the look on my face and the humming sounds of vibrator sex toys when he’s using them on me really get him going, which I guess is a good tip for couples interested in trying sex toys!
I purchased this clit toy off the Internet, where I buy most of my sex toys, and it came with no delay. I loved how the package was discreet, and it never said anything embarrassing on my credit card bill. This day and age, shopping for sex toys and related items on-line is so easy, even a shy person can do it! Oh and as for cleaning, as I mentioned, the Wicked Teaser is not water proof. I just use my trusty sex-toy cleaner and wipe it the vibrator and the battery pack, to keep it safe and germ-free!
I recommend this toy for everyone, as it’s easy to use and good for quickies. If you love sex toys the way I do, you’ll no doubt love this sexy little teaser! Sex toys bring so much joy and relaxation and this teaser is not shy of any of that.
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As many couples grow older, or even younger couples who have been together a while, the creativity in bed can be somewhat lost. Having a romantic night out, then coming home to do the dirty deed can be quite awkward if the pair don’t really know how to turn each other on anymore. Well, it happens to the best of us, and sometimes we just need a little advice to get us going once more.
Romance is defiantly an important part in improving a couples’ sex life. If there is no cute inside jokes, or naughty grins in public, there is no will to share your most intimate moments later in the bedroom. Romantic gestures don’t have to be big, don’t forget the small things in life are usually what count most. So things like bringing home flowers for no reason can be a huge turn on for a woman. No matter who she is, 99.9% of women like flowers! Having that said, 99.9% of women will also melt like butter if her man is being especially sweet. Make her dinner when she is most tired, then draw her a bath. Maybe offer to share the bath with her. Why not get a waterproof clitoral vibrator to play with in the tub? If you do decide to try sex toys, a big turn on is using it on the other person. So for instance, the man puts the finger-vibrator on, and arouses the woman with it.
This day and age, people work to much. Everybody is always tired, and this can severely limit a sexual relationship. Instead of saving sex for the weekend, try it on a week-night. It might make you feel a little naughtier knowing you should be sleeping. But of course, don’t loose too much sleep! Maybe start by planning a night, and spend all week thinking about what you will do to your partner. Think about using sex toys, and what they feel like. Think about it until you have gotten yourself turned on, but don’t do anything about it, wait for your night! That way you will build the suspense, and when the night comes, you will be like, “finally!”, and ‘finally’ is a good feeling! Try some new positions: maybe doggy-style, face to face on a chair, even in another room besides the bedroom. Be creative, try laying down together back to front, like “spooning”, on bent over the kitchen table. In the shower (be careful, don’t slip!), or even better, rent a porno movie and watch it together. Think about the things the actors are doing, and try them on your partner. But going into an adult store to rent a pornographic film may be a bit to much for some people. In that case, you can buy videos on the Internet, or even find porn itself on the Internet. There are tons of choices for everyones tastes.
On that note, sex toys, of course, are a big help. There are so many kinds, from tiny personal vibrator sex toys to erotic strap-on sex toys, and everything in between. Now, this topic can be tricky to bring into conversation with a partner, some people just don’t talk about it. So instead of asking their views on using sex toys, just buy some! Again, buying over the Internet relieves the shyness of going to a store to purchase something. Imagine the surprise when you come home bearing a multi-speed bullet vibrator for your partner. In conversation, they might play it off as if they are not interested in sex toys. But if you buy and one they actually have it in front of them, chances are they know you are serious, and they will be pretty excited to give it a try. Start small, and try different things to find out what each of you like. Oh, and don’t forget the lube! Lube is a must with any rubber/jelly/latex sex toys. It makes insertion 100% easier and more comfortable, or if no insertion is planned, it will help slip around the surface better to increase pleasure. Lube on its own is even good with fingers to reach an orgasm faster and with more ease.
Now when the spark is fading, it’s not only up to the man to be romantic and bring home the sex toys, women have an equal part to play. Turning on your man is a good way of turning yourself on too. Everyone loves being sexy, and your man loves it when you are too. Try some cute and kinky lingerie; vibrating panties, crotchless panties, a nice corset, a garter-belt and stockings, sexy high heels, a see-through teddy, a see-through jumpsuit. Have a look around, pick something you like, and chances are you will floor him. Now that you have your outfit, practice dancing to some sexy music, and when he is least expecting it, strut your stuff! He will be pleasantly surprised! And that is a good way of getting things going. Him seeing you dancing will most likely give him an urge to be wild with you! Don’t forget your sex toys also! They go hand in hand with lingerie. You masturbating with sex toys while wearing sexy lingerie is a good way of getting him to beg for you! So bring on the lingerie, and bring on the sex toys!
Food is also a different thing to try. Licking chocolate sauce or whipped cream off each other, or sharing chocolate covered strawberries. This can be cute and lead to wild things as well. Try playing a sex game; there are some where you roll the dice to see what action you must do to what body part. These dice can be purchased at most sex toys stores and online. This can be erotic and give you some ideas. If you have children, send them to the babysitters and try being loud during sex. This can be quite the release! For more ideas on sexy things you can do for each other, why not visit your local sex toys store, or take a peak at sex toys stores online. TheAdultToyShoppe.com is a great store specializing in many different, unique and interesting sex toys and sex toys related novelties!
Overall, improving your sex life is down to the pair of you. Talk with each other, or don’t talk and just surprise each other! Most of the time, your partner is up for anything you are. Get some kinky ideas from some kinky films, and try them together, or set up the video camera and make your own film! Watch it together to remind each other what it’s like, and that should get you two going! Why not try role-playing? If you are not sure what to do, try being a doctor and a patient, or a hero and a damsel in distress! Don’t be shy, you are sexy, and your partner wants you! Sex toys are the perfect addition to any relationship, so don’t forget about them. Good Luck!
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