05.25.07
Don’t Be A One Minute Man
Do you love having intercourse with your partner, but it always seems to end quickly? Do you think she is getting a little bored with how short the fun time is lasting and perhaps turning to sex toys to finish? Well, there are some things you can do to improve your sex life by reducing premature ejaculation. Here are some products and their uses you can get to give you some extra time, and even give her more time to reach the ultimate climax!
First of all, don’t be upset about not being able to last. There are thousands of men who cannot last very long, and it’s nothing to be shy about. That is why these products have been created to boost your self-esteem and render your penis a brand new, hot sex machine!
Before you try products like these, if you prefer, you might try stimulating her for a while with sex toys first. Sex toys are great for foreplay, like little clitoral stimulating sex toys, or wireless vibrating sex toys. Try these before you try other products if you already have them laying about the house. Or, you could try incorporating sex toys with these other ideas for the ultimate in sex experiences!
There is a wide variety of lotions and creams you can buy to desensitize your penis, and help you last longer in bed. These lotions are called sexual enhancing creams, and are made with benzocaine, a powder used as a local anesthetic. It is safe for topical use on skin, and will numb the head of your penis to make you last longer. There are different styles of desensitizing creams you can buy: flavored creams, unflavored creams, body butter, balms, gels, and even sprays. Some are made with natural desensitizing ingredients instead of the benzocaine, but all the types made with benzocaine are safe for use with condoms. Durex maintain condoms have benzocaine already applied to them.
Now all you have to do is pick the one for you. After you’ve made your selection and you are ready to use it, just rub a small amount of the head of the penis 10 minutes before engaging in sexual intercourse. If you don’t wait the 10 minutes, and just engage in intercourse right after applying, your partner will also go numb and it will not be any better! If you choose the spray, it’s the same method, 10 minutes before, then go for it!
Benzocaine cream is also a good aid for anal sex. It’s numbing properties help relieve the slight discomfort that can occur during anal sex. Mix a small amount of the benzocaine cream with some lube and apply either to the anus, the penis, or the condom, which ever you prefer. For this, you do not want to wait 10 minutes before insertion to activate the numbing properties right away.
Another method of premature ejaculation control is cock ring sex toys. Again, there are many styles and sizes you can buy: rubber cock rings, vibrating cock rings, metal cock rings, magnetic cock rings, pouches, cock rings that stimulate your partners clitoris, cock rings that stimulate your partners anus and erogenous zones and many more. Pick the one you are most interested in, or the one that catches your eye, and get ready for some exciting fun. I’ll leave the “how they work” to another article, so check for that one if thats what you’re looking for.
Sex toys like cock rings, and I supposed lubrication fits into the sex toys category as it is needed to satisfy, are great from reducing your temptations to ejaculate to soon. Try them for yourself, and see what works best for you.


