06.08.07
Oral Sex Tips For Couples
Being intimate with your partner is an important part of having a meaningful relationship. But when it comes to oral sex, do you feel your missing out? Could your partner do better? Well, many men want to provide a woman with the extreme orgasmic pleasure of oral sex, but they really are not sure the best way. This can lead to a woman feeling unfulfilled and disappointed. Maybe you try and make up for it by using sex toys, but it just isn’t quite the same. Sex toys are good for adding to the oral sex, but they cannot replace it all together. Well, have no fear, here are some tips to ensure you are delivering, or receiving, the best oral sex ever imaginable!
For him:
First of all, make sure you know all the sensitive areas. The clitoris is of course the main one. The clitoris is where many of the nerve endings that run through the vagina meet together, making this a very sensitive spot. Direct stimulation to this spot will arouse your partner, and definitely get her wanting more. Get her to lie on her back, and you on your front, with her knees bent and her legs spread.
A good way to begin is to work you way around the clitoris by flicking the it lightly with your tongue, just enough so she feels it. Make sure you look up at her to see her expression. If you keep an eye on her, you’ll be able to tell what she likes and what she does not like. After the clitoris is stimulated, you can tell this because it is puffed up larger than usual and bright pink, move your tongue around gently, try moving up and down instead of circles for now.
Lay your tongue out flat, and press it against your partners whole area, then slowly lick up while heavily breathing warm air on her. This will get her tingling in a great way! Make sure to always refer back to the clitoris as this is most important spot in oral stimulation. Try gently sucking on it, and pulling a bit. Use your teeth very VERY gently and nibble it a bit.
Next, suck on her clitoris firmly and slide one or two (which ever she is more comfortable with) fingers inside her vagina. Move your finger around and turn your hand up so your palm is facing your head. Find her g-spot, a spongy like small area about the size of a quarter about 2 inches up towards the navel, and and massage it with your finger. A combination of this while a strong sucking on her clit will send her soaring into a wave of pleasure. Don’t forget to notice her expressions.
You can also use sex toys for this. Try getting a mini g-spot vibrator and use it while sucking and her labia or clitoris. This is a totally different sensation than a finger, and may send her to orgasm fast! Sex toys can also be used for stimulating the clitoris while you like a little lower. Try licking just above the anus while you use her favorite sex toys to stimulate her vagina. That will definitely get her going! Sex toys will add to her stimulating oral experience, so get creative and try many different potions with the sex toys, your tongue and your finger.
Get a bowl and some ice cubes. This is a small trick that everyone should experience at least once. Warm up her vagina opening using your breath, once she is all warmed up and least expecting it, put on ice cube in your mouth and cool off your tongue. Then lick her labia and clitoris with your cold tongue and watch her squirm! After she knows you have ice cubes around, try sliding one inside her and then licking her labia quickly, and maybe in circles this time. You might want to have a towel under her bottom, as the ice cube with naturally melt inside her and be a bit messy.
A great alternative to ice cubes is glass sex toys. Get a glass dildo and put it in the freezer for a couple minutes. Then take it out and teaser her while you lick her. Glass sex toys are sexy, sleek and all around perfect. She will love the sensations, and you will love giving them to her. Glass sex toys make sexy gifts and will last a long time.
Fer Her:
In order for him to be able to get you off, you’ll have to help a little bit. You have to be in the right frame of mind, or nothing will be accomplished. Think about what you are doing, how much it turns you on, and how much you want to reach your orgasm. Besides thinking about that, don’t think about anything! Relax and let yourself go. Also, you can try rubbing your breasts, as this will increase sexual stimulation.
Sex toys will work on him also. Get a vibrator and tickle him while you suck on him. This will be sure to arouse him and make him orgasm faster than you could imagine! Sex toys will not only arouse him sensually, but the thought that his partner wants to fool around with sex toys is a hot idea, and will help with the illusion. So get him some sex toys and tell him you’ll use them on him, if he’ll use your favorite sex toys on you after!
For both:
Just have fun. Oral sex is a great way of fore-playing, or can be a sole way of pushing your partner to their orgasm. Try pleasing each other by 69′ing. This is achieved when one partner is on their back (easier if it is the guy), and the other onto, with your faces in between each others legs. Then orally please each other, play, tickle and frolic together! Oral sex is a great experience, and should be shared by all couples! Have Fun!
