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Remember when we used to go to the grocery store and the cashier asked us if we wanted paper or plastic? Now, we ask ourselves, plastic or rubber? Not for grocery bags through, but vibrators and other sex toys!
When looking at the selection of an online sex toy store, you are impressed and awed by the pretty colors and striking patterns. Sure the colors are vibrant and the designs are cute, but how do you know how the toy will feel? After all, visual appearance does not matter when you are inserting something into your vagina! Not to be graphic, but it’s the truth!
I’ll start my analysis with comparing the two types of popular vibrators with the known aspects of each material - plastic is hard and smooth, rubber is silky and smooth. I can’t say that all rubber sex toys are soft, especially with some rubber vibrators because some have a solid core like a plastic shaft with a rubber coating. This gives the texture more of a silky feel when you touch it but it remains solid like a plastic vibe.
Another factor about rubber coated plastic sex toys is that they feel a little more warm then plastic, which tends to be very cold. Rubber also warms much easier as it absorbs body heat and plastic takes longer.
If you are one for fast gliding, then plastic is sure to win in the debate of slickness - hands down (no sex pun intended!). The rubber does glide too when properly lubricated but the feel has a little more fiction then plastic - not necessarily a bad thing because many women like the feel of the textured friction.
Some rubber vibrators are foam like inside. These are usually latex rubber vibrators which are very cheap in price and often first timer vibrators because of the price. The foam feeling is very comfortable, much more so then plastic because it bends easily and can conform to your unique shape inside.
The vibrations are another factor to consider when debating if you prefer plastic or rubber sex toys. Any plastic vibrator will be strong because there is nothing muffling the intensity and the sound. All plastic vibrators are noisy, that’s juts the way it is. Don’t be shocked by this, just know that it will happen.
To silence the noise of a noisy vibrator a little bit, wrap the batteries in a half sheet of paper before inserting them into the vibrator because it will prevent the batteries from rumbling against the plastic and will help to reduce the noise a little bit. You can also do this for any other noisy vibrator sex toy too.
On the side of the rubber vibrator, the vibrations will be very subtle and soft on the latex vibrators that are foam like on the inside. This is physics in motion, the extra padding prevents the vibrations from flowing freely throughout. It will give you a gentle massaging feel. Rubber vibrators with solid centers will vibrate more strongly. Now it’s a question of preference, silky or solid.
When it comes to cleaning your sex toys, the cleaning of latex vibrators can be quite tricky because the material is very porous. You must be careful to clean the vibrator well using sex toy cleaner or antibacterial soap and hot water. Don’t go too hot because you could melt your sexy toy!
Plastic is very easy to clean, it is the least porous besides glass so there is no worry about bacteria forming on the surface. Some say it’s even safe to share these types of adult toys or to use them as anal toys (always make sure to clean in between vaginal and anal insertions).
One last factor is rubber sensitivity. Many women are allergic to latex and if this is the case. I would recommend staying away from rubber vibrators because most have some latex in them, better to be safe then sorry. Stick with plastic or jelly.
Aside form the appearance, you now have a few tips to go on now when shopping for sex toys!
Make a wise vibrator choice when shopping because the store that you buy from should not allow returned and you want to make sure that you fet what you will like. Remember if the sex toy store accepts returns chances are you are buying something that has been sold and maybe even used, no one want used sex toys, that’s terrible! Be sure to check for a good no-return policy before you give any sex shop your business.
Happy self-pleasurizing!
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I came across these two really interesting blogs, they are juts brand new but if you are psychology students looking for something for your studies, try reading the Erotic Era blog about our new generation of sex fiends. Also read the Sex in Advertising blog it’s all about the marketing if sexual attraction to make people buy things.
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You know that deep down you have an odd fetish and you are dying to let it out. This might appeal to those darker and strange fetishes.
Dildo usage within marriage. Wives who use sexual penetration on medical advice! Read this page about sexual empowerment for the new millennium!
Frigid Wives and Feminisation! In 1962 Dorothy L. Grant, a popular ‘agony aunt’, published her now infamous book about frigid wives.
A great way to get a virgin to enjoy sex is with role reversal, in addition it is a secret fetish of many people. The best site for bizarre sexual things and fetishes, these two sites are sure to be unforgettable for anyone who takes a peek!
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Sensual women’s wear really has changed over the years, it has evolved in different stages and has appealed to men and made women feel sexy. It’s almost a history lesson to see vintage underwear, it’s erotic and sensual in a nostalgic way. Back in the day of corsets and repression, you can sense the restrained sexuality of these women by looking at them posing in their vintage underclothing, you can see the repression peek through and sense the subtle sexiness that was hidden behind the full-covering lacy and tight pieces of clothing.
Looking at these pictures might also be a reminder of the days gone by when you wore this or your girlfriend wore a nightgown or slip to seduce you. Take a trip down history lane and see something that you don’t usually see anymore!
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Where do the hottest girls on the planet go? They give interviews and pose for Girl Next Door Magazine. There’s even an adult forum, contests and a whole lot of hotties!
The classy nature is great for couples to browse together, if you decide to “go there” together then this is the magazine that you want to reach for first.
They also keep you up to date with all the news coming from the adult industry.
A great feature of Girl Next Door Magazine is the reviews on sites that include how many videos and pictures the girls have done. Get teased by your dreamgirl!
Sign up for the online magazine free - it really is a great site, well laid out with crystal clear images. Check it out!
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The sexiest occasion is on its way, and what better way to celebrate then with sexy lingerie! This year please yourself and please your partner by looking good and feeling great! I love to wear the fanciest lingerie any time of the year, but when Valentines day comes around, I love to boost it up a notch!
Classic lingerie like corsets and ruffle panties look great with low heel, toy-doll style shoes, and ultra tight curly hair. Along with some shimmering glitter and fishnet tights give you the luscious look of a glowing goddess. Or go more modern style and try a vinyl bikini with some sexy 8” pumps and a super tight, high ponytail. This look will stop any man dead in his tracks!
When choosing lingerie, always make it personal! Just like a painting, if you don’t absolutely HAVE to have it, then it may not be the right piece for you. Look around until you find something that screams “Damn you’d look good wearing me!” Then you won’t be disappointed when you make your grand entrance. If something doesn’t fit right, then you can always do a little stitching or pinning to make get that perfect fit. Every womans body is different, so don’t expect a perfect fit every time. A little effort may be required, but in the end it will be totally worth it!
Accessorizing is the ultimate in important! Pearl necklaces, diamond bracelets, hoop earrings etc. Whatever you need to make that perfect look, then go ahead and spring for it. Fishnet or sequined stockings, arm bands, head bands, hair clips and barrettes, feather boas, garder belts, sexy socks, lacey gloves, wrist cuffs, a whip or paddle etc. All of these items are important and will make you feel so much sexier!
Don’t forget about good looking makeup. Classic browns or vibrant blues and greens; match up with your outfit and you’re set! Eye liner and glitter, red rouge and shimmering lips, all good and all sexy. This valentines day, be the Goddess you know you are and treat yourself to some ultra chic and very erotic lingerie! Happy shopping!
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Spicing up your love life is easy, fun and oh so worth it. But many people may need some hot hints to heat up those naughty sheets. There are many things you can do, and many objects and toys that can also be a good aid, but what about location? It’s true when they say, “it’s all about location, location, location!”. Think about it, would you feel sexier in a cold kitchen or on a hot beach? Maybe the steaming jacuzzi would be a little bit more suiting for a romantic evening then your messy front room. If your house is the perfect place for you, then why not try sprucing it up a bit!
Try adding some sweet smelling flowers, or some sexy scented incense to help infuse your aromatic senses. Your sens of smell is definitely an important factor in a sexy evening together. Feeling sexy is also a great way of getting yourself in the mood. Put on some sexy high heels and your favorite dress, with a kinky peek-a-boo bit of lingerie underneath!
Put of some music that makes you want to move and shake, and this will also help your mind ease and get ready to seduce! Make a super tasty dinner, or order in your favorite Chinese or pizza, and share it with your lover. Feed each other, and laugh when you spill! Then, time for desert! Key lime pie, whipped cream, strawberries and cherries! What a perfect combination to ease any sweet tooth! Use your fingers to eat desert, and go ahead, make a mess! You can always clean it up in the morning. Why not eat desert in the bedroom, in the jacuzzi, or any place that you have set up to be your sweet seduction area! Also, get creative, don’t always use the bed. Try a couch, the bathtub, up against a wall… the possibilities are endless!
Get silly and play a sexy game for adults only! This will give you some kinky hints to help you later on when the heat is on! Some fun adult sex games can not only help spice things up, but can kill those boredom blues when theres nothing else to do! If your not in the mood to get silly, try a romantic love kit to set a seductive mood!
But who wants to stay home! With all the daily stress we subject our bodies and minds to every day, it is definitely worth it to get away every now and then. But even though you need a relaxing holiday, it doesn’t mean you can’t have a romantic relaxing holiday! Why not book a flight to a sexy ocean getaway! Just imagine you and your lover watching the sunset over the ocean, with the pleasing pounding of bongo drums in he background, sipping your favorite tropical drinks! What a great way to re-kindle that spark that may be lingering instead of roaring!
Before you venture off to your romantic tropical vacation, pick up some small and sweet sex toys. Good traveling toys would be a small teaser kit that contains a couple different options for some different sensations for her, or sexy vibrating cock ring to send him soaring!
Whatever your sexy craving, make sure you have the perfect backdrop to accommodate your naughty mood. You and your lover will enjoy sex better while wrapped in the perfect scenario. Turn your bathroom in to a tropical paradise, or hop on a plane, and find your favorite spot on the beach!
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The following contains the most important pointers of when it is good to tell the truth about oral sex. Sex advice that every couple needs at one time or another…
If you are giving oral sex, it might kill the mood a little bit or be a slight crush on your partner’s ego to stop and ask “how am I doing” but truth be told that each person likes something different and not everyone has the same technique. In th end, how do you know you’ve pleased your lover?
It’s a matter of honesty and in a very delicate situation. Just like you’d never tell your partner that his penis is small, you don’t want to hurt their feelings either when it comes to oral sex techniques or you may detract them from doing it in the future. Oral sex may become a chore or your partner might wonder the entire time if you are feeling the groove, distractions ruin the flow and affect the technique.
It’s a very touchy situation when it comes to being honest about sex techniques.
How do you tell your partner that they are licking, sucking or nibbling too hard? If the issue is too much force, the easiest way is to tell them by showing them. Do not use words, instead, grab their head and gently pull back a little bit until it they can only reach with their tongue the softness that feels the best. Hold their head there are they may get the point of the message you are trying to convey.
If they do not understand your subtle hint and push against your hands and try to proceed with their oral sex technique as before, pull their head back again and whisper “right there feels the best”. This little line will never crush the confidence and instead of critiquing their cunnilingus or fellatio method, you are actually giving a suggestion.
Recap of this sex advice: The best fix for too hard cunnilingus is to hold their head back and say “right there feels the best”.
If the situation is the opposite as above, their fellatio or cunnilingus is not hard enough and lick or suck so lightly that you can barely feel it, do just the opposite as the sex advice suggestion above. Push their head harder down into you and they will get the point. If they retract and keep doing it lightly, push their head down again and say “right there feels the best”.
When it comes to critiquing your partners sexual technique, it can be daring becuase you don’t want to affect their ego at all. Take this sex advice and use suggestions instead of actually telling them. It will definitely result in better results, enjoy your satisfyingly new oral sex life!
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Penis Extensions are specifically made for men who need that little bit of extra length, and come in a couple different forms. They are considered sex toys, as they are related to the subject, and really are just sex toys in disguise! They can also be considered erection control, as the solid, strap on penis extensions are stiff like dildo sex toys.
Think you need a bit more length? Well first there are penis extensions that roll down the shaft of your penis, much like a condom. The material is soft and sleek, and very comfortable. At the tip of the condom like extension, there is a foam like substance that fills the head. The extra length can range anywhere from 1.5 inches to 4 inches, and some extensions can also increase your girth by 0.5 or so inches.
For vibrating penis extensions, there is a hollow spot in the foam at the head of the extension, which holds a small bullet vibrator. Then there is a small, pillowy foam flap that covers the bullet vibrator, and an added piece of material, often cyberskin, that ensures the most comfort for him. These then vibrate through out the foam extension, and feel like shes masturbating with sex toys, although better because it’s her man!
Adding length to your penis is no good if you cannot maintain your erection in the first place. So there are sex toys penis extensions that are hollow dildos with a strap. These are comfortable, quick and easy to slip on. Simply slide up the strap around your hips, and place your penis inside the dildo shaft. Now you have a new, harder and longer penis to pound with. These dildo sex toys are soft, sleek, flexible yet stiff, and can come ribbed, noduled, or textured in many different ways.
Cyberskin penis extension sex toys are great for avoiding premature ejaculation, as they cover the complete shaft, and lessen the sensations the man will get. These have a filled head as well, and add girth also. Futurotic material is also used to make some penis extensions, and these also add girth, length and desensitize you a bit.
Ribbed, bumpy, textured, veiny or a combination of all of them, what ever you are looking for in a sexual sensation, these penis extension sex toys will do th trick, and keep your woman satisfied. The vibrating penis extensions can be used with out the mini bullet vibrator for a standard sensation, but the option for erotic vibrations is there.
Penis extensions are perfect is your girl wants to be penetrated by you deep down, and you need a little help satisfying her. Even if that is not the case, but you want to see what it is like, then penis extensions sex toys are perfect for you. Try one today, and see what you think! Use in conjunction with your favorite cock ring for even more erection control and sturdy love making.
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