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Sex Lube
Lubrication is important during sex play with sex toys. If you do not use proper lubrication, friction can be produced between the sex toys and your skin, and this could lead to unnecessary pain and swelling, which could be damaging to tissues in your sensitive areas. But you do have to be careful of which type of lubrication you use with each sex toy material.
For example, if you use a silicone lubrication on a silicone sex toy, chances are the two types of silicone will melt, destroying your sex toy. So to avoid this, make sure silicone lubrications are only used with non-silicone sex toys. Use a flavored lube or a water based lube for your silicone sex toys.
You may now wonder, why is there even silicone lubrication is it could potentially ruin sex toys? Well, when used with other materials, or on skin during male masturbation, silicone lubrication is the most slick, slippery and long lasting lubrication! Silicone lube does not dry out like water based lubricants, instead its silk texture keeps going strong, and slick with no dryness or friction. It is also not recommended to use for intercourse, as silicone is harder to clean off, and should not be inserted into a vagina or anus. When I say hard to clean, it is really just that it takes lots of soap and water, as it is not water soluble and may need a bit of a scrub!
Water based lube is a popular type of lubrication, as it can be used on anything, and may enter the body safely. You may experience water based lubrication drying out a bit, but this is just because the most predominant ingredient is water. There is no need to apply more lubrication when this occurs, simply add a little bit of water or saliva and it will reactivate the slick, slipperiness.
For anal sex or anal sex toys, specific anal lube is recommended. This is a water based lubricant, but it is thicker and will stay thickly on a toy easier than with regular water based lube, which will smear off too easily, and dry out quicker. Anal lube will last longer for the tight opening, and will stay intact longer for better anal sex. Water based and anal lubricants will clean off simply with soap and water.
Flavored lubes are great for oral sex, and on sex toys. These are usually water based lubricants and will clean off perfectly after use. These lubes come in so many tasty flavors, from spicy peach to cinnamon to blueberry cheese cake and all the way to Root-beer! Of course you can also get your standard cherry, strawberry, apple pie and passion fruit, but why get something boring when you can get Espresso or Pina Colada! Whichever you choose, flavored lubrication adds spice and heat to your kinky oral sex play!
Not all lubricants are drippy though, some are jellies and some are more butters. It is all really which ever you prefer. If you like body butters that smear, or if you like jellies that are colder to the touch, or even if you do like the drippy lubricants, each are perfect in their own ways with their own benefits for each person.
Try each one out for yourself, and see which one you prefer. Sex toys slathered in lubrication feel better and slip and slide so much sexier and easier, and as for intercourse, lubrication will get you hotter, wetter, and make you feel sexier! Having a dripping wet vagina and a slathered rock hard erection will get you both going and create a sexual encounter you will never forget, night after night!
