05.03.07
Some Tricks to a Good Blow Job
The idea of oral sex to some people may be a little icky, but in reality, it can be a sure fire way of reaching the ultimate orgasm. Of course, your first time might be a little intimidating, or you’ve done it a lot, but aren’t sure if you’re doing any good, well here are some pointers to help make every oral sex encounter pleasurable for both partners.
Here are some tricks to make oral sex on men not only easier, but a sexier experience for both. First of all, if you have a strong gag reflex, as many do, and can’t reach your throat with out it acting up, there are gels you can get to help. These gels have a numbing ingredient that targets the area in the throat which triggers the gag reflex, so when the penis hits it, you will barely feel it and will be able to keep going. Also, some of these products have a tingling effect on the penis, increasing arousal. They are highly recommended as a lubricant keeping the penis moist, and are thicker than regular lubes to avoid the mess. Most are flavored to increase the interest of the giver.
Now after applying the oral sex enhancer gel, here is the fun part. Start by sliding the penis into your mouth, and wrapping your hand firmly around the base. Try to maintain a firm grip on the base while moving your mouth up and down the shaft, slowly at first. You can speed up or slow down as you wish; try and notice noises and body language signifying “good” and continue with that, or just ask which they prefer.
Now don’t forget about your tongue! As you pull your mouth up to the top, flick the tip of the penis a bit, then swirl your tongue erotically around the head before you slide back down. As you move up and down, press the flat of your tongue firmly against the shaft. You can also swirl your tongue around the shaft as firmly as possible. The warm rubbing of your tongue feels like nothing else in the world to a guy! When you tongue reach the bottom of the penis, try and push it as far into your throat as possible without hurting yourself (this is known as “deep throating”). While doing this, stick your tongue out as much as you can to try licking the very base. The feeling of the tongue on the base of the shaft will give the illusion of the penis being farther in your mouth than it really is. While you’re doing this, use either your other hand, or the hand you are gripping with, and firmly hold the testicles. Try rubbing them, gently squeezing them, or lightly pulling on them, just be careful, they are very sensitive!
You can also use your teeth, as long as you are careful. Drag your teeth up the shaft lightly enough so your partner can barley feel it, and then glide them over the head, and towards the tip. Be very careful not to nip the tip of the penis, you won’t get a good reaction from that! It’s a good idea to always mix it up between rigid gliding teeth, and a hot swirling tongue. Once in a while it’s good to take the penis out of your mouth, still gripping the base, and press your tongue on the base of the shaft and lick all the way up. Then as you reach the tip, wrap your lips around the penis again, and continue bobbing up and down. Also, breathing hot and heavy over the penis increases sensitivity.
There is also a pressure point between the balls and the bum that really gets em’ going if you take your thumb, and press the spot, gently, but firmly, massaging in circles. This spot acts almost like a G-Spot in women, and can really help reach orgasm faster.
Having said all this, every man is different, and they each like different things. Talk to your partner and find out which tricks they like the best.
