09.05.07
Vibrators for Beginners
Vibrator sex toys are widely used, from lonely women, to college women, to married women and everyone in between. But what if you have not used a vibrator before, and sex toys is a new idea you’ve never thought of before? Well have no fear, because sex toys are probably the biggest thing right now, but so discreet you’d never know! If you are anxious to get involved in the sex toys craze, and need a few tips and points to get you going, then hopefully this vibrators guide for beginners will help you out a bit, and perhaps get you excited to try sex toys for yourself!
First of all, female sex toys are a category of their own! Different from male sex toys, vibrators are a girls best friend. Of course, men can use them to tickle themselves, or perhaps tease their anus, but besides that, vibrators are female sex toys that women can call their own. For beginners using vibrator sex toys for their first time, maybe you should start small. This is no necessary, as if you have had sexual intercourse with a man before, and you are used to the size of a man, then maybe matching that size would suit you best. But if you are not sure what the vibrations feel like, and are nervous about sex toys, starting slim would be your best bet.
Try something with a 1.25 inch shaft, and any length, as you do not have to insert the entire vibrator is you do not want to. Use lubrication for easier insertion and more comfortable movements. Water based lubrication would be best for beginners, as it is easy to clean up, and does not leave a tacky stick to clothing or bed sheets.
Begin by sliding the vibrator into your vagina, and turning it on to your preferred speed. Most vibrator sex toys are multi-speed for more stimulation and comfort. If you would rather turn it on before you insert, then that works just fine also. Start at a slow speed, and massage yourself. Feel around and get to know your body. There is no rush to reach your orgasm, as you may not even be sure how to do it yet. Every women is different, and sex toys are made to accommodate that. Push the vibrator in as far you you want, until it feels good. Be gentle with your movements until you find a spot that feels the best for you.
You can also slide out the vibrator and use it to tickle your clitoris. Simply use the head of the vibrator and snuggle it up right next to your clit, spreading your vagina lips with two fingers to get a closer, more erotic sensation. This will not only get you naturally wetter, which helps with the insertion and thrusting of the vibrator, but it also sends messages to your brain saying you are aroused. This is the psychological part of masturbation. Your mind receives these messages, and decides to relax and enjoy!
Now that you are comfortable using a vibrator, have experience an orgasm, and are starting to enjoy sex toys for all they can deliver, maybe it is time to try something new. Pick a vibrator made from a different material. Try jelly for a flexible, comfortable and easy to maneuver feeling, or Cyberksin for a life like sensation. Perhaps a larger size, and a more powerful vibration? Also, try vibrator sex toys that have clitoral stimulators on them. These are the ones that have the shaft of the vibrator, and a small bit coming off one side and pointing up. Weather it be bunny ears or just a rigid piece of jelly, these clitoral stimulators tease and tickle your clit while the vibrator is on and inserted. Some of the higher end Rabbit Vibrator sex toys have independent controls, so you can have the vibrator shaft at one speed, and the clitoral stimulator at a separate speed. These vibrators are a bit more expensive, but are well worth it!
A G-Spot vibrator is another option you can try, and will probably love! As most sex toys, G-Spot sex toys are very popular and very sensational. The are the vibrators that are curved a bit, sometimes with a larger head one the end, maybe round or bulbous. These vibrator sex toys are meant to be inserted with the curve pointing up, towards your belly button. When turned on, massage the front vagina wall until you find your G Spot. You will know it is your g-spot as it may give you the sensation that you need to urinate one you hit it. This will past after a few moments, and extreme pleasure will replace it. Sex toys that vibrate this area are very good at what they do, as a g-spot orgasm is one of the best experiences a women can have! These are the ones that send you to bed smiling, and let you relax and rest better.
If you want to read more information about vibrators, and learn about the different types, styles and sensations of each kind, please visit this great Vibrators Guide I have found. Enjoy sex toys, and your new love for vibrators. It’s true, a vibrator is a girls best friend!
